Issue In Focus
I think the best thing we can do as we take this conversation forward is to consider this multifaceted breadth of desire as erotica; to include and not exclude in our definitions, and to accept desire wherever it lives, and in whatever form.
This question of appropriateness is, for me, at the heart of all questions around sexuality. Each of us carries within us our own private benchmarks for which expressions of sexuality we find appropriate, and which ones, in turn, have crossed an invisible line. The ones we believe belong across the border, in the land of the inappropriate, of the too much.
I was not simply stuck within the binaries of “same-sex” or “opposite sex,” assuming that any reference to “same-sex” is in itself already revolutionary. But the call to recognise friendship, is a call to recognise so many forms of community that are made invisible by the emphasis within a liberal or conservative framework on “marriage” as the only path to family making.
I was not simply stuck within the binaries of “same-sex” or “opposite sex,” assuming that any reference to “same-sex” is in itself already revolutionary. But the call to recognise friendship, is a call to recognise so many forms of community that are made invisible by the emphasis within a liberal or conservative framework on “marriage” as the only path to family making.
What do you think of when you put the words freedom and sexuality together? Orgies? Polyamory? Sex with no unwanted…
Fiction is often relegated to a secondary stow because fact-based forms of knowledge are becoming more and more valued. To be informed is to stay with the facts. Yet I think fiction allows us to stay just about as informed.
We begin this discussion – as it is an ongoing process of understanding on our part – by reiterating that…
The Union Budget, 2014 presented by the newly elected government a few weeks ago includes various provisions for disabled persons…
“As a tool of social control, women have been encouraged to recognize only one area of human difference as legitimate,…
Post the historic Naz Foundation judgment of the Delhi High Court in July 2009, a prominent English news magazine carried…
Post the historic Naz Foundation judgment of the Delhi High Court in July 2009, a prominent English news magazine carried…
As a generation X-er I grew up in a world that was challenging sexuality but only encountered the instability of gender as an adult in radical new academic texts which were not then yet part of our everyday narratives. My daughter born between Gen Z and Gen Alpha is growing up in a world of gender fluidity and multiple pronouns.
It is not entirely impossible to imagine that classical Indian dance is timeless or that the stories narrated in these…
It is not entirely impossible to imagine that classical Indian dance is timeless or that the stories narrated in these…
The promises of the Internet are, of course, highly contextual. The Internet will mean very different things to a person who has access to their own mobile phone in a city with a reliable and affordable broadband or WiFi connection, as compared to someone who does not have access to a reliable Internet connection or who is unable to go to a shop to exchange downloaded songs and clips through an SD card.