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This Self? Or That One?
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This Self? Or That One?

Self is you in a state of becoming at all times…
By Shikha Aleya
April 15, 2026
This Self? Or That One?
Like Telling a Caged Bird to Soar Higher
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Like Telling a Caged Bird to Soar Higher

Change those worlds, and sexuality stops echoing limits.
By Ratnaboli Ray
April 15, 2026
Like Telling a Caged Bird to Soar Higher
When Staying Is Not a Choice
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When Staying Is Not a Choice

My gender, I have been told, can wait.
By Vihaan
April 15, 2026
When Staying Is Not a Choice
The Beaming Waves We Once Were
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The Beaming Waves We Once Were

Why do I love you?

By Abdullah Erikat
April 15, 2026
The Beaming Waves We Once Were
Editorial – Digital Intimacies and Sexuality
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Editorial – Digital Intimacies and Sexuality

We humans are sometimes able to squeeze kindness out of a stone. And love out of nowhere.
By TARSHI
March 17, 2026
Editorial – Digital Intimacies and Sexuality
I and We. Digital and In-person!
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I and We. Digital and In-person!

…people want to be themselves.
By Shikha Aleya
March 17, 2026
I and We. Digital and In-person!
Lost and Found on the Internet: Reimagining Intimacy, Risk and Survival
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Lost and Found on the Internet: Reimagining Intimacy, Risk and Survival

Maintaining the streak meant maintaining contact
By Niv, Vanshika Gupta, Anjani Chadha
March 17, 2026
Lost and Found on the Internet: Reimagining Intimacy, Risk and Survival
Digital Intimacies, Gendered Exposure, and the Violence of Virality
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Digital Intimacies, Gendered Exposure, and the Violence of Virality

Intimacy – whether sexual, emotional, or relational – cannot be treated as raw material for consumption without consequence
By Daraa Patel
February 17, 2026
Digital Intimacies, Gendered Exposure, and the Violence of Virality
The Soft ‘Bloop’ of Discord
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The Soft ‘Bloop’ of Discord

Here, intimacy arrives without spectacle…
By Chitrangi Kakoti
February 17, 2026
The Soft ‘Bloop’ of Discord
Can’t Help Blending With You
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Can’t Help Blending With You

…something truer than thought starts to climb upwards.
By Taarina Therese Chandiramani
February 17, 2026
Can’t Help Blending With You
Body-doubling in the Digital Age
Two osprey birds of prey soaring high above the earth against the wispy purple sunrise and half crescent moon. Shot from underneath as they flew together across the sky.
Body-doubling in the Digital Age

My mother will be so ashamed of me for ‘dying for sex’.
By Apoorva Ravi
February 17, 2026
Body-doubling in the Digital Age
Dasain of Lovers
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Dasain of Lovers

Couple haru ko dasain is here –
the festival of lovers.
By Lungmying Lepcha
February 17, 2026
Dasain of Lovers
Streaming a Utopia
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Streaming a Utopia

The heart finds warmth in glowing screens
By Shruti Sharma
February 17, 2026
Streaming a Utopia
Editorial – Anthology Jan 2026
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Editorial – Anthology Jan 2026

To remind us of what spaces that are safe, inclusive and self-affirming for each person could look like, we have curated a selection of articles from the last five years of In Plainspeak for this anthology – our gift to wish you a wonderful 2026.

By TARSHI
January 16, 2026
Editorial – Anthology Jan 2026
On Learning and Becoming: “To Whom Do I Owe the Woman I Have Become?”
On Learning and Becoming: “To Whom Do I Owe the Woman I Have Become?”

We become women before we become a woman. Of course, we don’t need to try hard to do so…We learn the sides and folds of the gendered box we are in before we gain the perspective to decide we don’t fit in and build a customised box or choose to have no box at all.

By Anjali
January 16, 2026
On Learning and Becoming: “To Whom Do I Owe the Woman I Have Become?”
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