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Still from a Hindi film 'The Dirty Picture' (2011). A brown woman has open black hair, is wearing a black bindi, and a bright-coloured, deep-neck blouse. A man behind her is touching her waist. There are piles of oranges in the garden around them. They both are singing a song.

The Challenge of Accessibility: Desire, Fantasy and People with Disabilities

The general attitude towards sexual fantasy, and the reflection of such fantasies in popular imagery, erotica and erotic porn is constructed on assumptions of ableism. There are other fantasies though, that reflect or are born of the sexuality of their creators and consumers, persons who do not fit into the accepted age, body or sexual identity.

By Shikha Aleya

November 3, 2016

The Challenge of Accessibility: Desire, Fantasy and People with Disabilities

A man in a grey tee shirt and black pajamas standing, looking surprised at something.

Video Page: ‘How Can It Be’

A moving short film by Mira Nair on the anguish we subject ourselves to when faced with the inexplicable power…

By Curated Content

February 1, 2016

Video Page: ‘How Can It Be’

Photo of a woman lying down. The photo focusses on her torso - she is wearing a black crop top, and blue jeans. Her one hand is on her waist.

Why Sexuality & Sexual Freedom Need To Be Discussed Beyond Violence Against Women

This post is a part of TARSHI‘s #TalkSexuality Campaign. By Shruti Arora “I’ve never told this to anyone before, but…

By Curated Content

August 31, 2015

Why Sexuality & Sexual Freedom Need To Be Discussed Beyond Violence Against Women

A woman wearing a blue saree and an orange blouse performing Kathak. She is wearing colourful bangles and jewellery on top of her forhead, ears, and neck. She is wearing kajal, a black bindi, and her hair is tied.

Brushstrokes: Desire In Dance

[slideshow_deploy id=’4883′] This series of images captures a few Indian dance forms that have over time told stories of desire….

By Curated Content

January 1, 2015

Brushstrokes: Desire In Dance

A man and a woman perform Kathakali on stage, wearing typical Kathakali costumes of red and white and elaborate headgear. A lamp is lit on the stage. Their makeup and dresses show beautifully in contrast to the darkened stage.

Dances of Desire: From Devadasis to Modern Storytellers

It is not entirely impossible to imagine that classical Indian dance is timeless or that the stories narrated in these…

By Shweta Krishnan

January 1, 2015

Dances of Desire: From Devadasis to Modern Storytellers

Desire Against Desire

Post the historic Naz Foundation judgment of the Delhi High Court in July 2009, a prominent English news magazine carried…

By Oishik Sircar

June 1, 2014

Desire Against Desire

The Impossible Collective: A Review of Rituparno Ghosh’s Dahan (1997)

June 1, 2014

The Impossible Collective: A Review of Rituparno Ghosh’s Dahan (1997)

Photo of a group of transgender women celebrating someone's birthday

Bodies Beyond Rights

This piece attempts to think about how bodies are produced and circulate in moving registers and discourses, chiefly around the question of representation.

By Vikramaditya Sahai

May 1, 2014

Bodies Beyond Rights

Reel Review: Of Sex and Desire: What Mark O’Brien Taught Me

December 1, 2013

Reel Review: Of Sex and Desire: What Mark O’Brien Taught Me

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Themes

In Plainspeak publishes one issue every month, with a single theme running across two months. Our aim is to expand safe, inclusive self-affirming spaces.

CURRENT ISSUE:

October-November 2025: Friendship and Sexuality

Friends influence, and even shape, the ways we think about and enact sexuality. Childhood giggles, adolescent questions and the search for identity, early adulthood heartbreaks and sexual explorations, mid-life relationship navigations, later-life guffaws while recollecting earlier sexual experiences and trying out new ones … where would we be without our friends? Regardless of
whether we meet in person or online, what do inclusive friendships look like and how do they affirm our sexuality? On the other hand, can friendships cause damage and hurt in the context of sexuality? This issue of In Plainspeak will tease out the intimacies, eroticisms, boundaries, romance, and space for free expression and self-affirmation that friendships of different kinds may or may not afford.

अक्टूबर-नवम्बर 2025: दोस्ती और यौनिकता

दोस्त प्रभाव तो डालते ही हैं, पर कहीं न कहीं यौनिकता को ले कर हमारी सोच और अभिनय को भी एक आकार देते हैं। बचपन की खिलखिलाहट, किशोरावस्था के सवाल, पहचान की खोज, शुरुआती वयस्कता में टूटे दिल, यौन जिज्ञासा को तलाशना, मध्‍य-आयु में रिश्तों की राह ढूँढना, और ढलती उम्र में पुराने यौन अनुभवों को याद करते हुए और नए अनुभवों को आज़माते हुए हंसी-ठिठोली… सोचो, अगर हमारे दोस्त न होते तो हम कहाँ होते? चाहे मुलाक़ात आमने-सामने हो या ऑनलाइन, असली समावेशी दोस्ती कैसी होती है? और यह हमारी यौनिकता को अपनाने का हौसला कैसे देती है? दूसरी ओर, क्या यौनिकता के संदर्भ में दोस्ती नुकसान और चोट भी पहुँचा सकती है? इन प्लेनस्पीक का यह अंक दोस्ती के अलग-अलग रूपों में मौजूद अंतरंगता, यौनिकता, सीमाएँ, रोमांस और वह जगह तलाशेगा जहाँ खुलकर मुक्त अभिव्यक्ति और आत्म-स्वीकृति संभव होती है – और कभी-कभी नहीं भी।

UPCOMING ISSUE:

CSE and Affirming Ecosystems

Peers, parents, teachers, creators, social influencers, and many others, have been delivering information and modeling assertiveness and relationship skills around sexuality, to young (and not so young) people. Many are using creative and innovative ideas and methods to convey accurate and relevant messages to engage with diverse audiences. We have often overlooked these resourceful and ingenious ways in which Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE) is communicated. Be they ideas shared within a family, workshops held in a school, an awareness campaign in a community, a policy at a town, state or country level, a TV series aired nationally, these are what go on to create micro and macro CSE ecosystems that are affirming and inclusive. For learning to last and be converted into practice, a one-off exposure to a lecture, book, or Instagram post is not enough. It is an affirming ecosystem that sustains learning and living. This issue of In Plainspeak focuses on what people are doing and how, to create and sustain affirming CSE ecosystems.

व्यापक यौनिकता की शिक्षा और सकारात्मक पारिस्थितिकी तंत्र (इकोसिस्टम)

समकक्ष लोग, अभिभावकों, शिक्षक, रचनाकार, सामाजिक प्रभावक (इन्फ्लुएंज़ेर) और कई अन्य लोग, युवा (और कम युवा) लोगों को यौनिकता के बारे में जानकारी प्रदान कर रहे हैं तथा दृढ़ता और संबंध कौशल को समझने व अपनाने में मदद कर रहे हैं। कई लोग विविध दर्शकों तक सटीक और प्रासंगिक संदेश पहुंचाने के लिए रचनात्मक और नए विचारों और तरीकों का इस्तेमाल कर रहे हैं। हम अक्सर उन संसाधनपूर्ण और सरल तरीकों को नज़रअंदाज़ कर देते हैं जिनके ज़रिये व्यापक यौनिकता की शिक्षा (CSE) का संचार किया जाता है। चाहे वे परिवार में साझा किए गए विचार हों, स्कूल में आयोजित कार्यशालाएं हों, समुदाय में जागरूकता अभियान हो, शहर, राज्य या देशीय स्तर पर कोई नीति हो, राष्ट्रीय स्तर पर प्रसारित कोई टीवी श्रृंखला हो। यह वे चीजें हैं जो सूक्ष्म और वृहद CSE इकोसिस्टम का निर्माण करती हैं जो सकारात्मक और समावेशी हैं। किसी चीज़ को सीखने में और सीख कर उस पर अभ्यास करने के लिए , किसी व्याख्यान, किताब या इंस्टाग्राम पोस्ट का एक बार पढ़ना काफ़ी नहीं है।यह एक सकारात्मक पारिस्थितिकी तंत्र है जो सीखने और ज़िंदगी जीने को क़ायम रखता है। इन प्लेनस्पीक का यह अंक इस बात पर केंद्रित है कि लोग क्या और कैसे सकारात्मक CSE पारिस्थितिकी तंत्रों का निर्माण कर रहे हैं। साथ-ही-साथ, कैसे इस पारिस्थितिकी तंत्र को निरंतर जीवित रख सकते हैं, यह अंक इस पर भी केंद्रित है।

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