SISA Spaces and Sexuality

Editorial – Sexuality and SISA Spaces
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We envision SISA spaces as non-judgmental, inclusive, rights-based and affirming spaces wherein people’s sexuality, their identities, wellbeing, choices, desires and pleasure are respected.

By TARSHI
January 3, 2022
Editorial – Sexuality and SISA Spaces
Kun Faya Kun: Embodying Non-Conformity

This article was originally published here. My social media timeline repulses me. It’s filled with cis-het conformity among other things,…

By Ghausia Rashid Salam
January 3, 2022
Kun Faya Kun: Embodying Non-Conformity
Interview: Shruti Arora
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There may already be another organisation in the community to share resources with but for community-led initiatives, a shared perspective on Safe, Inclusive, Sexuality-Affirming (SISA) spaces is also important. Sometimes when the shared perspective is not there, that becomes a challenge.

By Shikha Aleya
January 3, 2022
Interview: Shruti Arora
Of ‘Kinkfests’ And Forbidden Fantasies: The Subversive Potential of Erotic Fanfiction

This article was originally published here. It is a summer night in 2010 and my parents are asleep in the…

By Rohini Banerjee
January 3, 2022
Of ‘Kinkfests’ And Forbidden Fantasies: The Subversive Potential of Erotic Fanfiction
Brushstrokes: Who We’re Leaving Out of Sex Positivity – And How to Make It More Inclusive

This post was originally published here. While sex-positive spaces affirm our right to pleasurable sexuality, they might leave out experiences…

By Curated Content
January 3, 2022
Brushstrokes: Who We’re Leaving Out of Sex Positivity – And How to Make It More Inclusive
Video: How to be a Friend to Yourself

This post was originally published here. Why is it easier for us to be compassionate and accepting of our friends…

By Curated Content
January 3, 2022
Video: How to be a Friend to Yourself
Dear Diary: The radically feminist creative journalling practice that nobody talks about

This article was originally published here. Even the Prime Minister cannot interfere with the baby’s bedtime. I pace in a…

By Sheena D'Lima
January 3, 2022
Dear Diary: The radically feminist creative journalling practice that nobody talks about
Hot Girls Wanted – Keeping up with the times
A section of the poster for the Netflix Original Documentary series Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On. Against a black background, there is an illustration of the waist of a human body, seemingly female, in solid pale pink. On the body, text in capitalised letters and black font reads, “ A NETFLIX ORIGINAL DOCUMENTARY SERIES”. In the next line, the text says, “HOT GIRLS WANTED: TURNED ON”. Below the title of the series is the logo for the Sundance Film Festival and the text reads, “OFFICIAL SELECTION SUNDANCE FILM FESTIVAL 2017”.

The film Hot Girls Wanted followed the journey of five young women aged 18-25 years as they joined the pornography industry and also looked more broadly at at women in this age group and their motivation to join.

By Elsa Marie D'Silva
January 3, 2022
Hot Girls Wanted – Keeping up with the times
How much support is enough?

This article was originally published here. This article not based on any studies I know of, but then I know…

By Asmi
January 3, 2022
How much support is enough?
Between Fear and Freedom
एक चित्रण जिसमें एक लड़की को एक सड़क के बीच में खड़ा दर्शाया गया है। लड़की ने अपने दोनों कंधो पर एक बस्ता पहना हुआ है जिसमें से एक चाँद और एक तारा बाहर निकल रहे हैं।

We are led to question what ‘safety’ really is: Will it be guaranteed by going gently, if at all, into that good night? Is it at all possible to freely and safely explore who we are and the world in which we live?

By Anjali
January 3, 2022
Between Fear and Freedom
Becoming a Womxn: An Autobiography on Pleasure

This article was originally published here. The canvas of a city is experiential – from the walls and windows that…

By Neel
January 3, 2022
Becoming a Womxn: An Autobiography on Pleasure
Book Review: Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows
Book cover for Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows by Balli Kaur Jaswal. The cover depicts two women dressed in traditional salwar kameez standing on either side of a series of magenta buildings, enveloped by a silhouetted dome shape of a gurudwara with a deep bluish-purple backdrop. The margins are a dense criss-cross pattern in golden. Two short review extracts are aligned to the top left and top right corners

The story is so well told and is written with such a light, deft hand that it is almost easy to miss what makes it so quietly radical. To review it within the scope of exploring the coming together of literature and sexuality we must begin with its central cast of characters – the widows.

By Sheena D'Lima
January 3, 2022
Book Review: Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows
Navigating love, loneliness and singlehood
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The desire for intimacy might rob one of the intimacy that one shares with oneself and thus, being with the beloved can leave one feeling even lonelier because of the continuing struggle for validation and comfort.

By Anonymous
January 3, 2022
Navigating love, loneliness and singlehood