Author: Ragamalika Karthikeyan

Its a selfie of the writer with open hair, wearing glasses, black bindi and a small yellow flower in her hair.

अगर इन्टरनेट का अस्तित्व ही न होता तो?

·June 15, 2017
·Ragamalika Karthikeyan

अगर इन्टरनेट न होता, तो मुझे लगता है कि मैं खुद में बहुत ही असुरक्षित महसूस करती। इस बात से आप कोई अन्य अर्थ न निकालें – यहाँ मेरी बात में ज़्यादा ज़ोर ‘असुरक्षित’ से अधिक ‘बहुत ही’ पर है। इसी बात को दुसरे पहलु से देखें तो इसका अर्थ यह निकलता है कि इन्टरनेट…

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Photo of a young Indian woman. She is wearing black top, has curly hair, and is wearing glasses.

If the Internet Didn’t Exist

·July 1, 2015
·Ragamalika Karthikeyan

If the Internet didn’t exist, I believe I would be a highly insecure person. Don’t read that the wrong way – the stress is more on the highly than on the insecure. If it were the other way around, it would mean I’m not insecure at all. Which is so far (stress on far)…

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In Plainspeak publishes two issues with a theme every month.
A cross-cutting theme across all forthcoming issues in 2021 is how we can expand safe, inclusive self-affirming spaces.

THIS ISSUE:

January 2022 – SISA Spaces and Sexuality
Imagine a space where we are free to be authentically ourselves, to love who and how we want, to feel accepted, connected, and supported, and to assert ourselves against heteropatriarchal expectations around gender and sexuality. In a world riven with violences and marginalisations, safe, inclusive, and self-affirming (SISA) spaces in the context of gender and sexuality bring to life the shared feminist vision of sexual and reproductive health and rights, and wellbeing. Celebrating plurality, SISA spaces make room for multiple identities, lived experiences, and perspectives. SISA spaces encourage us to look within, to engage with and learn from one another, to hold space, and to evolve. In the January anthology issue of In Plainspeak, we bring you a collection of older articles around SISA spaces and sexuality, and attempt to discover newer ways of forging and expanding such spaces.

February – Sexuality and Coupledom
Wading through the dating pool, we are expected to pair off – one man, one woman, get married, and raise children. Romantic relationships within a hetero-patriarchal set-up are tangled in ideas of ‘soulmates’ and ‘forever’. Instead of The One, what if we choose to seek The Two, or even The Three with whom we can forge fulfilling emotional, sexual, and material connections? Or, being asexual, maybe no one at all for sex, but still luxuriate in intimacy? In exploring relationships outside the bounds of socio-political and cultural legitimacy by experimenting with and expressing sexuality in ways we find meaningful is an assertion of agency, bodily autonomy, and selfhood against patriarchal norms around relationships and family. The February issue of In Plainspeak attempts to examine coupledom in our social context, and unearth its possibilities.

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Author: Ragamalika Karthikeyan

अगर इन्टरनेट का अस्तित्व ही न होता तो?

If the Internet Didn’t Exist

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