{"id":3417,"date":"2014-08-01T07:00:51","date_gmt":"2014-08-01T01:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak?p=3417"},"modified":"2018-10-17T14:20:44","modified_gmt":"2018-10-17T08:50:44","slug":"voices-unraveling-the-myth-people-with-disabilities-do-it-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/voices-unraveling-the-myth-people-with-disabilities-do-it-too\/","title":{"rendered":"Unraveling the Myth: People with Disabilities Do It Too"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018People say, <i>someone who has a disability should not indulge in sex<\/i>,\u2019 Inocente, a blind man in his 40s, told a Human Rights Watch researcher in Zambia. This is a widely held view in the country, where stigma regarding the sexuality of people with disabilities is pervasive.<\/p>\n<p>This view is deeply troubling. The idea that people with disabilities shouldn\u2019t have sex dehumanises and infantilises this population. Perhaps more jarring, however, is the notion that people with disabilities are asexual.The reality: people with disabilities have sexual relationships just like others, and they have a right to have a family and to sexual and reproductive health care just like others too.<\/p>\n<p>However, because of this stigma and a lack of disability-inclusive programs, people with disabilities in Zambia are often left out of sexuality education, reproductive health care and HIV services.<\/p>\n<p>Take Susan, a single mother with a physical disability. She told us,\u2019People think that people with disabilities can\u2019t have boyfriends, girlfriends&#8230;They can\u2019t feel sex&#8230;They must be just staying at home as a disabled.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>In Human Rights Watch\u2019s new report, \u2018<a href=\"http:\/\/www.hrw.org\/reports\/2014\/07\/15\/we-are-also-dying-aids-0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>We Are Also Dying of AIDS\u2019: Barriers to HIV Services and Treatment for Persons with Disabilities in Zambia<\/i><\/a>,\u2019 released in July 2014, we document the barriers to access to HIV services including prevention information, testing and treatment for people with disabilities in Zambia. There are an estimated two million people with disabilities in Zambia and just like any other Zambian, they are at risk of HIV infection. Zambia has made significant progress in scaling-up HIV prevention and treatment services over the past decade. However, people with disabilities continue to be left behind in the country\u2019s HIV response.<\/p>\n<p>Pregnant women with disabilities also told Human Rights Watch that they experience stigmatising attitudes when they go to clinics. Yvonne, a woman with a physical disability who also works with women with disabilities, explained that when you go for pregnancy care, \u2018Health workers counsel you as if you have done something wrong and everyone is free to make comments, \u2026 \u2018Why should you become pregnant?\u2019 Everyone gets shocked.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Another woman told us, \u2018When women with disabilities go for VCT (voluntary counselling and testing), you are looked up and down and people ask how you could have HIV, as they would never expect disabled women to be sexually active.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>These attitudes need to change.<\/p>\n<p>Governments like Zambia\u2019s need to step-up efforts to sensitise health workers, include people with disabilities in sexuality education, and address the stigma that Inocente, Yvonne and others regularly endure. Donors too need to make sure that sexual and reproductive health care is reaching all people, including those with disabilities. These efforts are important to dispelling the myth and accepting reality.<\/p>\n<div id=\"tw-target-text-container\" class=\"gsrt tw-lfl tw-compact-ta-container\">\n<pre id=\"tw-target-text\" class=\"tw-data-text tw-ta tw-text-medium\" dir=\"ltr\" data-placeholder=\"Translation\" data-fulltext=\"\"><span lang=\"hi\">\u0939\u093f\u0902\u0926\u0940 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0907\u0938 \u0932\u0947\u0916 \u0915\u094b \u092a\u0922\u093c\u0928\u0947 \u0915\u0947 \u0932\u093f\u090f, \u0915\u0943\u092a\u092f\u093e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/unraveling-the-myth-people-with-disabilities-do-it-too-hindi\/\">\u092f\u0939\u093e\u0902<\/a> \u0915\u094d\u0932\u093f\u0915 \u0915\u0930\u0947\u0902<\/span><\/pre>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018People say, someone who has a disability should not indulge in sex,\u2019 Inocente, a blind man in his 40s, told&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":73,"featured_media":15412,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,252,8],"tags":[567,57,245,1373,25,246],"class_list":{"0":"post-3417","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-categories","8":"category-sexuality-and-disability","9":"category-voices","10":"tag-aids","11":"tag-disability","12":"tag-hiv","13":"tag-sexual-health","14":"tag-sexualities","15":"tag-zambia"},"menu_order":0,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/73"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3417"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3417\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15420,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3417\/revisions\/15420"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15412"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}