{"id":25771,"date":"2023-11-20T08:57:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-20T03:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/?p=25771"},"modified":"2024-01-02T12:54:09","modified_gmt":"2024-01-02T07:24:09","slug":"apart-connected","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/apart-connected\/","title":{"rendered":"APART \/ CONNECTED"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">CHRONICALLY ONLINE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>i take a trip to another world from my room<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>on my desk, i talk with multiple people<br>throwing jokes<br>dumping traumas<br>bonding<br>from places so distant<br>yet so familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>on my bed, i watch people from my screen<br>like it\u2019s the sidewalk<br>listing down interesting actions<br>taking notes of fresh jokes<br>for tomorrow\u2019s dish at the picnic<br>i will hold from my room<br>as they attend from theirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>bring your own food<br>spill your preferred tea<br>and again, we will take a trip<br>to the same other world<br>from our separate rooms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>maybe i won\u2019t leave this place<br>\u2018cause i have found<br>my safe space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I AM ALWAYS HERE, VIRTUALLY<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>i can see you aching<br>behind the blank black pic<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>let me click on that tiny heart<br>to let you know<br>i am always here<br>virtually<br>one click away<br>from a conversation<br>you have been holding back<br>take your time to prepare<br>find me when you\u2019re ready<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>take your time,<br>take your space<br>as i will start to<br>make the time and space<br>for a soul so brave,<br>so raw, yet so real<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">WYD<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>wyd? and no, this is<br>not a drunk text<br>nor an invitation<br>to hook up. i just<br>wanna know if you<br>are up. in the am,<br>most people are asleep<br>the one place to be is<br>here<br>digitally<br>hoping that someone<br>is as wide awake as i am<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>wyd? start a conversation<br>distract my busy mind<br>help me count sheep<br>react to my thirst trap<br>and realize<br>how dehydrated<br>we are in the real world<br>we chug attention<br>digitally<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>wdyt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Cover Image: Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@urielsc26?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash\">Uriel SC<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/blue-and-white-floral-textile-11KDtiUWRq4?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash\">Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>i can see you aching<br \/>\nbehind the blank black pic<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":497,"featured_media":25808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4212,3401],"tags":[390,2110,2344,3949,2227,683,367,440,1971,1154,99,25,561],"class_list":{"0":"post-25771","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-digital-spaces-and-sexuality","8":"category-fiction-poetry","9":"tag-community","10":"tag-connection","11":"tag-digital-spaces","12":"tag-disconnection","13":"tag-dissociation","14":"tag-friendships","15":"tag-identity","16":"tag-internet","17":"tag-network","18":"tag-online","19":"tag-relationships","20":"tag-sexualities","21":"tag-solidarity"},"menu_order":0,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/497"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25771"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26077,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25771\/revisions\/26077"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}