{"id":17309,"date":"2019-06-01T09:30:23","date_gmt":"2019-06-01T04:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak?p=17309"},"modified":"2019-06-03T11:03:29","modified_gmt":"2019-06-03T05:33:29","slug":"tinder-lessons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/tinder-lessons\/","title":{"rendered":"Tinder-ing Lessons!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Am riding here for six months now,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Built intimacies, connections and general know-how \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Age, Colour, Class, Caste \u2013 I presumed was no bar,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Sapio bios, cheesy taglines were on my radar,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Honestly, there weren&#8217;t any specific rules for the game,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Consent basics, a little humour, but no stigma, no shame.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Sizzled some and swiped quite a few,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Got blows, kept some on toes, some even came as a bolt from the blue,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Shared mutual admiration sessions,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">And learnt some critical lessons,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Flaunted\u00a0 investment in lingerie and enquired about the talk of the town,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Expected &#8216;correct&#8217; answers and practised clear differentials in both verb and noun,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Literally got impressed by fluent lingo and splashed denims,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Artistic body art, flashy tags and menims!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Felt a constant pressure to &#8220;outsmart&#8221; the fellow swipe,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">And feared &#8220;rejection&#8221; for not having read the book of his type!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Complementarity was expected not on sunsigns but on flavours of wine,<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Can you imagine this being a reason for discarding six out of nine?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Hey, hey, was it really me who thought was bar-free?<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; margin-bottom: .0001pt;\">Who used to yell about on the standards set by thee???<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Honestly, there weren&#8217;t any specific rules for the game,<br \/>\nConsent basics, a little humour, but no stigma, no shame.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":299,"featured_media":17310,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,1989,8],"tags":[686,2014,25,663],"class_list":{"0":"post-17309","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-categories","8":"category-class-and-sexuality","9":"category-voices","10":"tag-class","11":"tag-online-dating","12":"tag-sexualities","13":"tag-tinder"},"menu_order":553,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/299"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17309"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17309\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17334,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17309\/revisions\/17334"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}