{"id":11967,"date":"2017-07-15T11:00:56","date_gmt":"2017-07-15T05:30:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak?p=11967"},"modified":"2019-04-04T23:41:30","modified_gmt":"2019-04-04T18:11:30","slug":"on-abortion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/on-abortion\/","title":{"rendered":"Who Should You Listen to on Abortion? People Who\u2019ve Had Them"},"content":{"rendered":"<header id=\"story-header\" class=\"story-header\">\n<div id=\"story-meta\" class=\"story-meta \">\n<div id=\"story-meta-footer\" class=\"story-meta-footer\">\n<p class=\"byline-dateline\">When I arrived at the clinic in Washington, I looked for the young woman I was waiting for. Her body was covered with tattoos of birds and stars. She hugged me with a warm smile and introduced me to her boyfriend. He didn\u2019t look at me. In fact, he didn\u2019t look me in the eye for the five hours we sat together in the waiting room.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"story-body-supplemental\">\n<div class=\"story-body story-body-1\">\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"390\" data-total-count=\"723\">I assumed it was out of shame until I noticed the white supremacist tattoos on his shaved head, neck, forearms and knuckles. As a black woman, I was scared of him. Yet I felt a bond. They had driven several hours from Virginia to avoid the numerous restrictions on abortions there. He was returning from jail. She already had a child and wasn\u2019t ready for another. I knew the feeling well.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"story-body-supplemental\">\n<div class=\"story-body story-body-2\">\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"379\" data-total-count=\"783\">To read the full article, please visit the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2017\/05\/20\/opinion\/sunday\/abortion-people-whove-had-them.html?smid=tw-nytopinion&amp;smtyp=cur&amp;_r=1\">New York Times<\/a>.<\/p>\n<footer class=\"story-footer story-content\">\n<div class=\"story-meta\"><\/div>\n<\/footer>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<p>This article was written by Renee Bracey Sherman and<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2017\/05\/20\/opinion\/sunday\/abortion-people-whove-had-them.html?smid=tw-nytopinion&amp;smtyp=cur&amp;_r=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">originally published<\/a> in the New York Times.\u00a0Renee Bracey Sherman is a member of <a href=\"http:\/\/echoingida.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Echoing Ida,<\/a> a black women\u2019s writing collective, and the senior public affairs manager at the <a href=\"https:\/\/abortionfunds.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">National Network of Abortion Funds<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The abortion debate rages on, but the voices of those who\u2019ve actually had abortions are ignored. Few people try to understand our lives. And we are never asked the most simple but important question: Why did you do it?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":294,"featured_media":11969,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[85,1,1290],"tags":[1327,1326,1325],"class_list":{"0":"post-11967","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blog-roll","8":"category-categories","9":"category-communities-and-sexuality","10":"tag-new-york-times","11":"tag-on-abortion","12":"tag-reproductive-justice"},"menu_order":919,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/294"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11967"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11967\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16439,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11967\/revisions\/16439"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11969"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}