{"id":11779,"date":"2017-06-15T11:00:56","date_gmt":"2017-06-15T05:30:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak?p=11779"},"modified":"2019-04-04T22:36:08","modified_gmt":"2019-04-04T17:06:08","slug":"wanting-monogamy-1946-men-await-swipe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wanting-monogamy-1946-men-await-swipe\/","title":{"rendered":"Wanting Monogamy as 1,946 Men Await my Swipe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Leaving Michael\u2019s apartment one Tuesday morning, I smiled and said, \u201cHave a good class today.\u201d That may not sound like much, but I was trying to leave a hint: I was interested in more than our one-night-a-week thing.<\/p>\n<div class=\"story-body-supplemental\">\n<div class=\"story-body story-body-1\">\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"37\" data-total-count=\"259\">Understandably, he didn\u2019t catch on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"87\" data-total-count=\"346\">So a little later, I texted, \u201cCould you send me a playlist of your favorite songs?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"58\" data-total-count=\"404\">He sent one, but I still wasn\u2019t sure he got the picture.<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"101\" data-total-count=\"505\">I decided to be a little more obvious: \u201cDo you want to go to the Grand Canyon over spring break?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"56\" data-total-count=\"561\">\u201cSounds fun,\u201d he replied, \u201cbut I\u2019m busy then.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"134\" data-total-count=\"695\">This was ridiculous. Finally I wrote, \u201cI like you and I want to be with you.\u201d Then I squeezed my eyes shut and pressed \u201cSend.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"story-body-supplemental\">\n<div class=\"story-body story-body-2\">\n<footer class=\"story-footer story-content\">\n<div class=\"story-meta\">\n<p class=\"story-body-text story-content\" data-para-count=\"379\" data-total-count=\"783\">To read the full article, please visit the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2017\/05\/26\/style\/modern-love-wanting-monogamy-as-1946-men-await-your-swipe.html?ribbon-ad-idx=3&amp;rref=fashion&amp;module=Ribbon&amp;version=context&amp;region=Header&amp;action=click&amp;contentCollection=Fashion%20%26%20Style&amp;pgtype=article&amp;_r=1\">New York Times<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-print-citation\">Cover Image: Brian Rea<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p class=\"story-print-citation\">This article was originally published in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2017\/05\/26\/style\/modern-love-wanting-monogamy-as-1946-men-await-your-swipe.html?ribbon-ad-idx=3&amp;rref=fashion&amp;module=Ribbon&amp;version=context&amp;region=Header&amp;action=click&amp;contentCollection=Fashion%20%26%20Style&amp;pgtype=article&amp;_r=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">New York Times<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/footer>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Leaving Michael\u2019s apartment one Tuesday morning, I smiled and said, \u201cHave a good class today.\u201d That may not sound like&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":294,"featured_media":11781,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[85,1,1260],"tags":[440,1283,1282,663],"class_list":{"0":"post-11779","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blog-roll","8":"category-categories","9":"category-the-internet-and-sexuality-2","10":"tag-internet","11":"tag-monogamy","12":"tag-swipe","13":"tag-tinder"},"menu_order":934,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11779","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/294"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11779"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11779\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16437,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11779\/revisions\/16437"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11781"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11779"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11779"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11779"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}