{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"In Plainspeak","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak","author_name":"Gayatri Mohan","author_url":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/author\/gayatri-mohan\/","title":"Who\u2019re You Kidding? &#8226; In Plainspeak","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"3nSH1AFnWn\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/voices-who-you-kidding\/\">Who\u2019re You Kidding?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/voices-who-you-kidding\/embed\/#?secret=3nSH1AFnWn\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Who\u2019re You Kidding?&#8221; &#8212; In Plainspeak\" data-secret=\"3nSH1AFnWn\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/1.jpg","thumbnail_width":640,"thumbnail_height":480,"description":"What exactly does being \u2018comfortable with your sexuality\u2019 mean? From a young age, all children, especially girls, are taught about specific \u2018values\u2019, and how we all need to behave in a certain manner or else we\u2019re being \u2018inappropriate\u2019. However, I think the term \u2018inappropriate\u2019 simply means, \u201cYou should be ashamed of your body and should only think about concealing yourself\u201d. And then our teachers and elders and others around us expect us to be automatically comfortable with our sexuality and with how we look, all the while trying to control us and impose their ideas on us."}