{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"In Plainspeak","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak","author_name":"Rahul Sen","author_url":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/author\/rahul-sen\/","title":"The Impossibility of Intimacy","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"HJVs27P8Ku\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/absence-of-lover-impossibility-of-intimacy\/\">The Impossibility of Intimacy<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/absence-of-lover-impossibility-of-intimacy\/embed\/#?secret=HJVs27P8Ku\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;The Impossibility of Intimacy&#8221; &#8212; In Plainspeak\" data-secret=\"HJVs27P8Ku\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.tarshi.net\/inplainspeak\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/1-4.jpg","thumbnail_width":1246,"thumbnail_height":1198,"description":"Roland Barthes writes in A Lover\u2019s Discourse\u00a0that we begin to think of \u2018love\u2019 as an idea only when our beloved or the object of desire has departed \u2013 either when love has failed, or in the absence of the lover \u2013 that is absolutely crucial to any theorisation of love."}