1.0In Plainspeakhttps://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeakRamya Anandhttps://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/author/ramya-anand/rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="NpGerdaUJB"><a href="https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/performing-good-sex-and-bad-sex/">How to Have Good Sex?</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/performing-good-sex-and-bad-sex/embed/#?secret=NpGerdaUJB" width="600" height="338" title="“How to Have Good Sex?” — In Plainspeak" data-secret="NpGerdaUJB" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript"> /* <![CDATA[ */ /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js /* ]]> */ </script> https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/1-2.jpg960678Taking away the focus on performance in sexual interactions to prove oneself and instead expanding the possibilities of sharing honest respectful sexual experiences without feeling entitled or obliged, whether in casual or committed relationships, can go a long way to having “good sex”.