1.0In Plainspeakhttps://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeakNamrata Dond and Vanshika Negihttps://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/author/namrata-dond-and-vanshika-negi/Out For Fun, In For Trouble • In Plainspeakrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="2DCQkpHTrJ"><a href="https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/out-for-fun-in-for-trouble/">Out For Fun, In For Trouble</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/out-for-fun-in-for-trouble/embed/#?secret=2DCQkpHTrJ" width="600" height="338" title="“Out For Fun, In For Trouble” — In Plainspeak" data-secret="2DCQkpHTrJ" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Namrata-and-Vanshika-scaled.jpg25601713This article explores how rigid gender roles and secrecy make queer men vulnerable especially considering the dating scams and blackmail queer men face that are rooted in toxic masculinity and stigma around sexuality.