1.0In Plainspeakhttps://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeakVizla Kumaresanhttps://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/author/vizla-kumaresan/rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="lgPLv1XDai"><a href="https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/exploring-the-rape-fantasy/">Exploring the Rape Fantasy</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/exploring-the-rape-fantasy/embed/#?secret=lgPLv1XDai" width="600" height="338" title="“Exploring the Rape Fantasy” — In Plainspeak" data-secret="lgPLv1XDai" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript"> /* <![CDATA[ */ /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js /* ]]> */ </script> https://www.tarshi.net/inplainspeak/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/1.jpg789720I am a feminist, sex-positive and LGBT affirmative Clinical Psychologist. Having that openly and publicly stated means that my clients feel very safe discussing some of the more taboo topics, especially ones that we are made to feel ashamed of. One of these is the topic of the rape fantasy.