Agency of young people
Age of consent
Role of parents and significant adults
Sex Fu Challenge
Practices and Strategies - Next Steps
Multi-Pronged Approach with various stakeholders
Language - a challenge
Concluding Remarks
A Compilation of Web Resources
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Introduction
Sexuality is an important aspect of developing a sense of self
and well-being. However, it remains an indistinct and a misunderstood concept with people
often equating sexuality only with acts of sex. As young people grow up, they often remain mystified
about sexuality.
Young people constitute a considerable percentage of the world
population and are vulnerable to various health hazards especially related to their reproductive
and sexual health. Consequently, more and more interventions are being designed keeping young people
in mind. Yet, what is the perspective with which these interventions are designed? What is the manner
in which these messages are conveyed? Do these interventions serve to meet the desired goal or do
they serve to alienate young people even further? As discussions of sexuality and sexual rights
gain momentum globally, it becomes pertinent to discuss, debate and address the specific concerns
of young people as a group with regard to sexuality and explore what it is that makes work on young
people's sexuality so controversial and contentious.
What do we mean by 'young people'? Are they a homogenous category?
The World Health Organisation (WHO) defines adolescence as those in the age group of 10 - 19 years,
young people as those between the ages of 10 and 24 years and youth as people who fall within the age
range of 15 - 24 years. According to the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child,
'a child means every human being below the age of 18 years unless, under the law applicable to the child,
majority is attained earlier'.
Definitions of young people thus vary, depending on the particular
focus of attention, context, country and even within a country itself. Sometimes, even within a country
they are defined differently in different laws and policies. The definitions accorded to 'young people'
vary from that of policy framers to health and information providers. The needs and priorities of this
group also change according to contexts, region, country, socio-economic status, disability status and
also marital status, amongst other factors. For example, as one of the participants has pointed out,
the needs of children living on the streets vary from those who live in secure homes, or the needs of
disabled young people from that of able-bodied people. For the purposes of this discussion, the terms
youth and young people were used interchangeably to mean people within the age group of 10 - 24 years.
The idea was to keep the parameters wide so as to bring out a broad range of aspects and to ensure a
vibrant debate and discussion.
Young people are often considered as people who are impressionable,
devoid of agency and unable to take decisions about their own lives. Therefore, when it comes to claiming
the rights of young people, it is often the significant adults around them or the State who get to
control their rights. In the situation when young people have little or no information about their rights
it becomes difficult for them to identify, articulate and to claim their own rights. At this juncture
when the concept of sexual rights is not clear even for adults, does it make sense to talk about sexual
rights of young people?
In this E-Discussion, participants were invited to offer their views around
four lines of enquiry:
(i) Sexuality and Young People - Making
More Connections
What do we mean by young people? What issues of sexuality are
commonly addressed with them and in what manner? What is it about sexuality and young people that makes
it such a contentious issue? What language and assumptions are used to address issues of sexuality with
young people? Are there spaces for young people themselves to articulate and engage with a range of issues
when it comes to their sexuality?
(ii) Access to Information and
Services
What are the spaces for young people to articulate their concerns
about sexuality? Are these adequate? In these spaces, what are the various points of entry for young
people? What are the spaces where young people can have access to information, services and resources
on sexuality, sexual and reproductive health and rights? Do these spaces allow for positive and affirmative
messages on sexuality? Are they open and non-judgmental spaces where young people could articulate their
concerns, seek information and participate in decision-making?
(iii) Sexuality, Young People and Rights
What do we mean by sexual rights for young people? What do they
comprise of and how are they different from reproductive rights? Should young people be able to claim
sexual rights? Do all young people have the same rights? Should there be a different set of rights
for different categories of young people such as that for disabled young people or young people who do
not have access to formal education? Do we think that young people have the agency to consent and take
decisions when it comes to sexuality? Do we think there should be an appropriate age when people can
consent to having sex or take decisions about their sexuality? Who decides that age and on what basis?
(iv) Practices and Strategies - Next Steps!
What are the individual experiences of the e-forum participants in
working with young people and sexuality based on which one knows what works and what doesn't? How do
the strategies change according to the changing contexts throughout the region? What are the specific
experiences at the ground level through working directly with young people, as well as at the policy
making and advocacy levels?
A summary of all that was
discussed follows. Not everything that was discussed was directly in
response to, or completely in keeping with the mentioned lines of
enquiry.
Sexuality and Young People -
Making More Connections
What we mean by young people
From the discussions that ensued, many participants on the e-forum
shared how 'young people' as a category is complex. The parameters and boundaries for defining them varies
across contexts, region, age, marital status, disability etc. One of the participants pointed out the need
to create indigenous categories of 'young peoples' instead of one universal category keeping in mind not
only the biological age but also cultural, social, racial, economic and political realities.
While it is convenient to delineate and categorize people in terms of
age, it is known that the experiences in countries of South and Southeast Asia are very different because,
in this region there are people who get married at a very young age and are elevated to the status of being
adults - marital status gaining precedence over age or any other variable.
An underlying assumption is that
sexuality is limited to marriage. As one of the participants pointed
out, young people are 'differentially treated by health care and
information providers and policy makers especially when it comes
to issues of sexuality and reproductive health'.
There is also the risk of leaving
out some groups of young people. For example, a participant stated
that when interventions on young people are designed, most of them
are through schools through sexuality education etc. However, in the
process young people who may not have access to formal school
education may be left out. Also, the needs of homeless children
are very different from those who have sheltered lives; as also
the needs of disabled young persons would be different from those
of able-bodied ones. Therefore it is necessary that different
strategies are devised to cater to differential needs
Why 'sexuality and young people'
is a contentious issue
Sexuality is by itself a taboo
topic. Therein lies the root of the contention. The issue becomes
even more complex when it is to do with young people and sexuality.
As a participant remarked, 'as long as the message is - no sex for
the young - there is no contention'. When the issue is of young
people and sexuality, the role of guardians, law makers, policy
makers and service providers inevitably becomes that of
'protecting' rather than allowing spaces and opportunities for
information and interaction. Young people are rarely considered as
people in their own right, able to take decisions on their own,
more so on issues of sexuality. A participant from India said that
the discourse with young people is often on 'young people's
sexuality' rather than talking holistically about sexuality as
such.
Most available information on
young people and sexuality is from a clinical and medical
perspective. Either there is an over-emphasis on sexual and
reproductive health issues or the debates and conversations on
sexuality are centred on HIV/AIDS, public hygiene and methods of
contraception. The few messages that exist are fear-based and
abstinence-only messages. Instead of creating safe spaces for
debate and dialogue, it further alienates young people.
Any target group intervention
aimed solely at 'young people' - without an equal importance to
other stakeholders such as parents, teachers etc. - could be a
mistake. A participant noted that as much as it is important to
impart sexuality education to young people, it is also important
that lessons on how to do so should be provided to parents. For
example, a participant shared that families hide any information
on sexuality more for girls than for boys. The participant added
'restricting the mobility of young girls is often the safest choice
of the parents for fear of [the young girls] getting sexually
assaulted'. These go towards reinforcing and perpetuating various
gender stereotypes.
Assumptions around 'sexuality and young people'
Young people's sexuality is often
considered to be 'out of control', so it must be restricted and
contained. Many harbor the notion that talking openly about
sexuality may 'encourage young people to have sex in an untimely
manner'. Sexuality is often equated just with the act of sex or
seen as something 'dirty'. The norms around sexuality differ for
married and unmarried people and that too on whether or not it is
for the purpose of procreation. Many interventions around sexuality
also focus on how young people could prevent abuse and harassment.
While that is important, concomitant spaces to talk about
affirmative aspects of sexuality are inadequate. As a participant
pointed out, 'we need to provide young people with not only how to
say no but also how to say yes'.
Interventions and policies need
to shift from being protectionist. There is very little youth
participation in designing programmes and policies. That is why
policies do not meet the needs of the young people. A participant
shared the example of how family planning policies do not give due
consideration to unmarried people. Sexual and reproductive health
services are not available to them. Even if they are available,
they remain unfriendly towards young people. We need to consider
young people as equal change agents and capable of participating
and taking decisions on issues which concern them.
Any target group intervention
aimed solely at 'young people' - without an equal importance to
other stakeholders such as parents, teachers etc. - could be a
mistake. A participant noted that as much as it is important to
impart sexuality education to young people, it is also important
that lessons on how to do so should be provided to parents. For
example, a participant shared that families hide any information
on sexuality more for girls than for boys. The participant added
'restricting the mobility of young girls is often the safest choice
of the parents for fear of [the young girls] getting sexually
assaulted'. These go towards reinforcing and perpetuating various
gender stereotypes.
Spaces for young people to
engage with sexuality
The spaces to talk about
sexuality in general, are inadequate, more so when it comes to
young people's sexuality. The few spaces that exist are likely to
be judgemental and value-laden. They tend to push young people
further away. For young people, families and schools are usually
the first points of contact with the outside world. Both, families
and schools shy away from talking about sexuality. Eventually young
people find alternative sources such as peers, porn magazines and
websites, which may not have accurate information. There is a need
to break the myths and taboos around sexuality and to create
positive and affirmative spaces. As stated by a participant,
'sufficient spaces for young people must be created to build their
capacities in articulating and developing what sexualities means
and enabling young people to gain control over their own
sexualities'.
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Access to Information and Services
Mass media and sexuality
There are various messages on
sexuality that reach out to people in general and young people
in particular. Technology and mass media has 'changed the way in
which people live, think and relate to one another'. Mass media
including television and internet bombard young people with all
kinds of messages. At the same time, a participant pointed that
mass media helps to 'fill up a lot of gaps' and it helps break
down taboos. This aspect of the media is however problematic as
the images portrayed could be limited, harmful and stereotypical.
In the circumstances young
people remain ignorant and unaware and may be misinformed.
According to a participant, it stems from the very belief that
information will be harmful to young people, that it will have a
number of undesirable 'implications' for them. The participant
found it ironic that often the same implications are talked about
but solely in the context of young girls and perhaps only
to keep them from getting pregnant.
Another participant said that
though there are physical spaces where one could access information
on sexuality, an environment to discuss issues - openly and
without being judged - is lacking. Also, due to social
conditioning and associated feelings of guilt, shame, suspicion
or peer pressure, awareness and access to these spaces is
restricted.
Sexuality education to be
included in the school curriculum for young people
Most participants in the forum
agreed on the importance of sexuality education for young people.
They confirmed that sexuality education should ideally contain
information not just about the body and the bodily functions,
but also talk about various gender roles and stereotypes, sexual
preferences and identities etc. However, many participants felt
that this would be inadequate if simultaneous spaces are not
created for parents, teachers and other significant adults (in the
lives of young people). In the absence of these spaces, young
people often get mixed messages on sexuality and end up feeling
more confused about themselves, their feelings and emotions.
Teachers and parents need to feel more comfortable around these
issues to be able to impart such education and to enable them to
have a sense of well-being. Care needs to be taken about the
selection and training of educators so that these educators are
not biased by their own prejudices and/or the dominant notions of
morality.
Young people themselves are
diverse in themselves and have a wide variety of needs. For example,
not all young people go to schools to receive formal education.
There is a need to reach out to them as well. A participant said,
'it may be a better idea to explore non-formal channels of
education' both for young people who have access to formal
education and for those who do not, so that 'young people have
an opportunity to surface their actual realities and concerns'
According to another participant,
sexuality education must cater to the specific needs of various
'marginalised groups' such as dalits (in India) or disabled people
who are often considered 'de-sexed' but - at the same time - are
sexually exploited.
Most discussants agreed that
although sexuality education is important for young people, it
should be made age-appropriate. Local definitions of young people
across different cultures and contexts should be taken into
consideration.
While some discussants thought that sexuality education should
begin from the age of 13 years, there were others who were hesitant
to assign an age. A few said that it was up to the lawmakers to
decide. There were others who said that sexuality education should
be included in the curriculum right from pre-school because sexual
abuse could happen to young people and children at a very early age.
While a few discussants said that sexuality education should be
provided to young people before they become sexually active,
there were others who said that it should be made available to
young people as soon as 'the gendering process starts in earnest'.
Many emphasized the need to give sexuality education to different
age groups and at different levels. It could be provided in the
form of manuals. A manual of general information could be developed. Different modules could be developed for different
groups keeping in mind their unique needs.
Language can be a great barrier to any kind of communication
across South and Southeast Asia especially around issues of
sexuality. A discussant drew attention to the need for evolving
a language to speak about sexuality by evolving new terms and
vocabulary in our language.
Many countries in South and Southeast Asia are currently seriously
debating on whether to include sexuality education as a part of
the school curriculum. It would therefore be interesting to
explore and understand the motivation and rationale behind the
introduction of sexuality education in schools and colleges.
What are the messages that are being imparted through the
curriculum? Are these done keeping in mind the 'best interests'
of young people or do they reflect some kind of fear? Also,
it would be interesting to examine the specific messages which
are given out to young people on sexuality and whether or not
these meet the purposes for which they have been designed.
Should sexuality education be a part of the school curriculum for
young people? If yes, then what would be the most effective way of
incorporating it? Is it advisable to have a State approved
sexuality education curriculum? What are the specific messages
that are crafted when communicating with young people?
And, what remains absent in these messages?
Messages crafted to communicate
about sexuality
The ways and means by which messages are crafted for young people
may either be participatory or exclusionary. Many of the services
and information that are aimed at young people often perpetuate
fear-based messages, which do not allow for young people to
communicate and share their own concerns and opinions and
often alienate them further.
With the blurring caused by varying definitions of young people,
the information available to them is often limited, ambiguous or
even incorrect. It adds to the prevailing confusion. Most messages
that reach young people are that of public health and safety
without any mention of pleasure or affirmative aspects of
sexuality. A participant said, 'when it comes to sexuality
there is a constant reference to 'Indian culture' and an
'othering' of young people'. The abstract notion of Indian culture
is upheld, ignoring the needs of young people.
The messages that the media gives and the messages that are
received - at home or in schools - could be contradictory. For
example one of the participants shared how her brother received
mixed and contradictory messages from the media and his family.
While the media considered same-sex relationships as okay, his
mother felt otherwise. It is no wonder then that young people
often grow up perplexed and mystified about sexuality.
When it comes to crafting of messages, the primary concern is the
amount of control that can be exerted - in terms of deciding what
constitutes education. Also, who are the people involved in the
process and what are the assumptions behind these messages?
Messages that remain absent
Messages that affirm sexuality are missing. Most messages are
fear-based and stereotypical messages. Messages of pleasure, of
positive and affirmative sexuality remain largely absent. It is
necessary also that along with talking about sexuality we should
raise questions and concerns about gender roles and stereotypes.
The approach needs to be one of getting young people as partners
and peers; this would enable them to assert more control over
their own bodies and lives.
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Sexuality, Young People and Rights
Sexuality remains an indistinct
and misunderstood concept with people often equating sexuality only
with acts of sex. The concept of sexual rights is still very
ambiguous. Sexuality does not figure as a priority in the
development discourse. People are still grappling with what it
entails. Does it entail the right to be 'promiscuous'? Is it
pitted directly against social and cultural mores of the country?
Development activists are still working with either a charity
approach or an empowerment one. The language of rights is yet to
be widely used.
Sexual rights are slowly gaining momentum globally. However, what
is it that comprises sexual rights and how are they different from
reproductive rights? Often reproductive and sexual rights are
clubbed into the same category with the idea that they are one
and the same. This kind of a connection comes from an underlying
assumption of heterosexuality and excludes other choices. It also
dilutes the importance of sexual and reproductive rights as
separate concepts. It is important to differentiate between the two.
Agency of young people
Young people are often considered
to be impressionable, devoid of agency and unable to take decisions
about their own lives. Therefore, when it comes to claiming rights
of young people, it is most often the significant adults around
them or the State who control or decide the rights of young people.
When young people have little or no information about their specific
rights, it becomes difficult for them to identify, articulate and
to claim rights.
In a context where sexual activity is understood to occur
exclusively within marriage, the legal age of marriage becomes
pertinent in terms of young people claiming their rights. As
mentioned above, in India, it is 18 years for girls and 21 for boys.
Although child marriages are explicitly prohibited, there are many
instances of child marriages in India.
One of the participants shared an anecdote about her visit to a
self help group called Bal Peharua (which means shelter home for
children) of an NGO, located in Varanasi, India. The members of the
self-help group were 10-20 year olds. The discussant shared that
they: '… were brought under the same canopy to pursue their own
rights, safeguard themselves against child abuse [and] gender
biases, to counter dowry demands, avoid adolescent pregnancies and
other associated issues and [to] bring about an attitudinal change
in their own family and the society at large'. She shared the story
of a 15 year old girl, Giriya, in the same village, whose marriage
was fixed to a person almost double her age because of parental
pressures. This is despite the presence of a law which sets the l
egal age at marriage for girls at 18 years and for boys at 21 years.
Giriya was subjected to physical torture, almost every day by her
parents because of her resistance to marry. Giriya wanted to pursue
her studies. On the day of the wedding when the wedding procession
was just a few yards away from Giriya's home, the Bal Peharua
members offered resistance to the wedding. The situation became
critical enough for the NGO members to intervene. At last, after
elaborate discussions, a consensus was reached that although the
wedding would take place, Giriya would remain with her parents,
till she was 18 years of age, which is the legal age of marriage.
This incident revealed the strength of Bal Peharua members. It was
an eye opener for the entire village and everyone realized that
even children, if united, had the power to pursue their rights and
safeguard themselves from atrocities. This is an example of the
agency of people, in this case young people, to bring desired
changes in their lives.
Age of consent
A significant factor is the age
of consent. It means the age at which people can legally consent
to sex. The age of consent differs not only across countries but
also within the same country and between different genders and
sexual orientations. Should the age to take one's decisions on
sexuality differ with gender, marital status or sexual orientation?
For example, the age of consent in India is stipulated only for
girls, which is 16 years. The law does not stipulate age of
consent for boys in India. Until recently, the age of consent in
Hong Kong was 16 years for heterosexual acts and 21 for homosexual
acts. Also, the law did not say anything about lesbians, entirely
ignoring their existence.
A participant from Laos said that there should be no discrimination
based on gender. Men and women should be treated equally. A
participant from India noted however that adolescent girls face
higher risks. They are more vulnerable to sexually transmissible
infections (STIs) or reproductive tract infections (RTIs), and
may also have pregnancy related problems. The participant thought
it 'imperative to undertake orientation on sexuality with
adolescent girls before the onset of menstrual cycle'. Because of
this, the participant said an age differential based on gender
is OK; but an age differential based on sexual orientation is not
justified.
Role of parents and significant
adults
Since young people have so few
rights, the onus of making information and services accessible to
young people falls largely on the parents and other significant
adults. They have a significant role to play in the development
process of a child. A participant said that just like adults are
entitled to sexual rights, so are young people. A participant from
India added, 'how young people make decisions about their
relationships, decide to abstain or participate in sex, and how
they decide to protect themselves from sexually transmitted
diseases and pregnancy is influenced by factors. Parents, peers,
media, access to education and services, and a host of other
factors influence their decisions and subsequent health outcomes'.
Good communication amidst young
people, parents, teachers and other significant adults is key to
young people developing a positive sense of self and well being.
A participant observed, 'Parents clearly have a role and exert
considerable influence in the choices young people make. What
parents might think or tell them, influences their decisions
about sex and relationships. Poor communication with parents and
other responsible adults about sex, safe practices etc; and any
kind of parental abuse may lead to young people making incorrect
decisions'. Equally important are peer group attitudes and peer
pressure. Young people are very often part of peer groups and may
feel pressured to behave in particular ways. It is therefore
important to move away from individual factors as the circle of
influence on young people's decision-making abilities also
extends to the roles of the community in which young people live,
the kind of opportunities a school provides by way of education and
information, and, last but not the least, their access to services.
Sex fu challenge
Sexuality education for young
people can be carried out through interactive games and exercises.
As an illustration of this, an online quiz, called the Sex-Fu
Challenge (hosted by a Canadian website called 'Sexuality and
U' http://www.sexualityandu.ca/eng)
was introduced to the
participants. The quiz could be used as a tool to facilitate
discussions on sexuality. Many participants said that they found
it very interesting. One said, 'this gave me an opportunity to
test my knowledge on human anatomy'; another said 'it is an
informative game and at the same time involves a lot of fun
thus making information sharing an exciting process'.
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Practices and Strategies - Next Steps!
Sexuality remains highly misunderstood and misinterpreted. It
usually falls low in the hierarchy of issues dealt with by development activists. A Ph.D scholar from IIT, Mumbai supplemented
this by saying, 'Since age, sex and sexuality had always been used
interchangeably and hence understanding of sexuality was not very
clear. Additionally, the definition of sexuality has always been
changing with time and also mainly because society always had a
very strong influence in defining 'sexuality'. Sexuality has been
perceived as a source of fear and embarrassment and also as a
source of pleasure and fulfillment at the same time'.
When it comes to sexuality and young people, all is not bleak.
There is exciting and innovative work on sexuality and young
people that is going on. The E-forum space was used to invite
participants to share individual experiences of working with young
people and sexuality and further devise strategies from everyone's
collective experience especially when working at the policy-making
and advocacy levels. Also, participants were invited to share
resources and materials on young people and sexuality that they
may have come across whether in the form of websites, books and
other documents, to develop a consolidated resource pool of
materials.
Multi-pronged approach with
various stakeholders
The discussions in this subtopic
started with a participant from India suggesting that at the policy
level there is a need for a national framework as well as regional
frameworks from which schools, health care agencies and other such
agents (which are directly involved with youth) will be able to
draw their own policies. She supplemented this by saying that the
National Youth Policy(2003) in India was insufficient to address
health needs as it does not lay emphasis on concrete action and
therefore, she felt that there was a need for an independent
'National Youth Sexual and Reproductive Health Policy'.
When it comes to sexuality, changes in law and policy have to be
juxtaposed with the work towards bringing about changes in the
mind-sets of various stakeholders. A participant said, 'with this
co-existence of dual perception of 'sexuality' [of it being a
source of shame /fear or that of pleasure/fulfillment] in the
society, I believe it becomes much more difficult for
parents/teachers to talk about sexuality to the young people.
At the same time, I feel there is a strong need to educate them on
the issue and we just need to find out a way through which we could
educate the young generation and give them the right perspective'.
Some participants said that 'there was a need to adopt a multi-pronged
approach to reach out not only to youth but also those involved with
youth, like parents, schools, communities, health workers, and
other care and service providers'. A participant added the need to
'ensure funding to campaigns and organisations adopting a wide and
secular perspective on this issue instead of those with anti-sex
and moralistic perspectives'.
At the practical level, a participant stated the need for more
training to 'minimise wide variations in skills, attitudes, and
competences in addressing issues of sexuality and sexual health.
As much as possible, attention should be paid to develop socio-culturally
and religiously sensitive methods'. She also said that it was
important to involve community youth and young adults especially
married people in the training process so 'they can be trained as
community peers who can not only function as guides but also provide
information and serve as referral points to organisations or other
health care agencies'. The training process according to her should
also include school counselors so they could be sensitized to issues
of sexuality and mental health among youth. She further stressed on
the need for sexuality education 'whether at the school level or at
the community level to address the alarming communication gap in
addressing issues of sexual harassment and abuse experienced both
within and outside homes'.
Language - a challenge
As a taboo subject in most of the
countries of South and Southeast Asia, finding appropriate language
to communicate about sexuality becomes additionally difficult.
Finding language that people are comfortable with - to talk of
different body parts or sexual behaviours - is easier said than
done. According to a participant, 'Language forms a very important
part not only in the expression of 'sexual physiology', but of
'sexual psychology' as well; an inner language is necessary for
appropriating one's own body, one's own sex'. Sexuality is fluid
and its definition and connotation differs between people and
contexts. A participant said, 'notions of 'sexual subjectivities'
and 'Sexual Identity' are equally important […] and their implications
[should be] understood as they imbricate power relations and
structures, and raise pertinent issues regarding gender and sexual
minorities'.
The Program Coordinator of a Resource Center in West Bengal, India
spoke of the difficulty they faced in preparing Information
Education and Communication (IEC) or Behaviour Change Communication
(BCC) materials for their HIV/AIDS Awareness Promotion Project in
Bengali language. The terminology to describe different parts of
one's body is not yet developed in that language. He explained,
'I am in a great dilemma to use appropriate terms to define human
organs or activities. Had it been in English, we would have been
much more comfortable as this language has lot of flexibility. But
what about Bengali?' He emphasised, 'before starting any discussion
on sexuality, we have to develop a common language that everybody
would be able to understand and that would facilitate communication'.
It was reiterated by others in the forum that it was far easier to
communicate in English when it comes to issues of sexuality because
the language is already developed. However, it is not as if people
who speak in regional languages such as Bengali, Marathi etc do not
talk about sexuality or do not have terms to refer to body parts or
sexual acts among themselves. Maybe the words used are not yet part
of 'accepted' language, or are considered 'slang' or crude. It was
suggested that in working with young people, it maybe better to ask
what terms they (the young people) use and what these terms/slang
mean to them; instead of external educators or facilitators trying
to find some 'official' language to communicate with them.
The moderator shared that even at the South and Southeast Asia
Resource Centre on Sexuality there are recurrent difficulties around
language. The Resource Centre's work is focussed mainly in 8
countries of S&SE Asia. Throughout the region there are different
languages in different countries (or even within countries) which
keeps people from understanding each others' local contexts. For
e.g., the term Bakla in the Philippines, Warias in Indonesia or
Hijra in India are very different from the term 'transgender' in
English. In translating terms to a universal language such as
English there is often the risk of missing local nuances.
In many languages there may just not be any term for particular
concepts. There are no exact translations for the word 'sexuality'
in many languages. However, that does not mean that the term or the
concept does not exist. For example, in China, there is no character
in the Chinese written script that would translate to the word
'sexuality.' Instead, the character for the word 'sex' is used.
The challenge then becomes to explain to people what sexuality means
and moving the conversation beyond sex equals sexuality. These
translations could further create more misunderstanding in the
process but can also often expand the meanings of a concept. A
participant said, 'I think while focusing on language, as much
emphasis ought to be given to ways of developing terminology to
express sexual identities and psychological aspect positively as
to sexual behaviors'.
However, in one's work as trainers or practitioners, people also
find out ways and means to communicate terms and concepts. For
instance in Hindi, even if there is no exact translation for the
word sexuality, activists and health workers use the term yonikta
to explain the meaning. Thus, one finds ways and means to negotiate
limitations of language, maybe even create new terms to communicate
ideas. However, this is a long and on-going process.
A discussion on censorship (on the usage of language) acknowledged
that it could be both, imposed by external agencies or sometime
even be self-imposed. Many a times we censor certain kinds of
information not only because it is prohibited, but also because
we ourselves consider it inappropriate.
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Concluding Remarks
The E-Discussion Forum gathered
a spectrum of views on given sub-topics /lines of enquiry. For
example, Sexuality and Young People - Making More Connections
offered some ideas on the ambiguity in the categorisations of
young people; Access to Information and Services brought forth the
lack of non-judgemental and safe spaces to talk about sexuality
with young people and also the significance of introducing
sexuality education in schools. Sexuality, Young People and Rights
invited dialogue on the concept of agency of young people and the
age at which young people could consent to sex. The introduction of
Sex-Fu Challenge during this subtopic also allowed for some light
moments during the discussion. The last subtopic, Practices and
Strategies - Next Steps allowed the participants to share resources.
The forum gathered participation mostly from South and Southeast
Asia. The content of discussion is limited to the contributions
made by the participants. That by itself may not give a full
picture. It introduces some of the issues in the region, with a
view to have wider discussions in other forums.
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